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7 ways to become a flirt hero!

Both men and women flirt differently, for different reasons and expectations from their partners. Flirting is an art that demands a lot of confidence, without going way above yourself. Consequently, some of the things that work in real life also work in online flirting. 

Below are seven ways anyone can become a flirt hero:

Just relax

When you meet someone whom you think can become a potential lover, be sure to be funny, lighthearted, and full of excitement. Make this person happy and eager to talk to you again when you both meet. Flirting is all about being creative and playful about your partner.

Radiate confidence

Meaningful flirts always yield a positive flair for life. You should convey this feel-good factor in your words and approach. A cool attitude attracts everyone!

Give out honest compliments

Doors fly wide open when you make people feel good about themselves. This means every time you give another person a lovely compliment, this person would want to spend more time with you more often. Don't be full of yourself, or else you lose someone who could otherwise become your best lover.


Pay attention to what your 'soon to become' partner is saying and ask appropriate questions. Get them in the mood to talk more about themselves. The more you're sincerely interested in their conversations, the more likely you'll end up making a potential soul mate.

Don't be rude

Flirting has nothing to do with being sexually explicit, nor does it say anything about taking offence if the other person isn’t into you. If interest isn't rising, accept this fact and move on. If you get a lot of rejections, consider a different approach that might work next time.

Respect is key

Touching is a lovely flirty gesture, but it shouldn't be done in such a way that makes the other person feel uncomfortable. Projecting the image of a pervert in the other person’s mind is the last thing you want to happen, especially when you’re both meeting for the first time. Resting your hand on the arms of your partner is acceptable for some people. But before touching, test the personal space in between by moving closer. Depending on how this person reacts, you can either choose to carry on or withdraw to eliminate the threat.

Send an email after you chat

It's very similar to sending a gift or thank you note, and it's pivotal to successful flirting. Don't try to move too fast, take it slow for the new relationship to gain full momentum.

Every time you flirt to get the attention of another person, you're opening yourself to new and different opportunities. You may end up with a new lover, or at the very least, a good and trustworthy friend. Using BYBER is the sure way to meet, chat, and flirt with hot new singles from around your area. Try this classic dating app today, and all your dating woes will go away!

BYBER Team 😉

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